I love my wife!! We’ve been married for 9 years and we have so much fun together. She’s 30, I’m 38 and I want to grow old with her. About 4 years ago, she found some texts messages between me and a FWB that I use to have when I was 19 years old! Long story short, I cheated on my wife a couple times with her, exchanged naked pictures, etc. My wife got so angry and sad! She asked me if we had sex and I told her the truth. She forgave me, said she understood that sometimes it’s hard to be with only one person. I promised myself not to do it again and I haven’t.
Now, 4 months ago I found some messages, videos and pics exchanged between her and some guy from work. In the messages, she told him that she loves me and was just curious what it was like to be with another man because I was her first one. It also said that he was only there for a short time, he’s left the country now but they were together for 4 months! She told him that she enjoyed the sex but they wouldn’t see each other again because of the distance.
I haven’t said anything to my wife because it’s over with him. We have 2 kids. In the beginning, I got upset but how can I say something if I did the same thing to her? To be honest, I enjoyed reading the sex conversations they had! I’m confused because it’s hot to know what she did and at the same time I feel cheated. Our sex life is so good and I love her.
Should I say something?
